ok, i know i am being unreasonable but i need to vent and maybe have someone tell me ill be fine.
for those few who know me on here ive had a pretty chaotic and devastating 18mnths, death of two close relatives, two mcs, job problems for me, redundancy for dp, no less than 3 car accidents/break downs resulting in write offs. and the major one was moving 100miles from 'home' for the house to be sold out from under us 10mnths later, oh and a nervous breakdown...
Anyway we have been in a bnb since feb, yesterday we got the call, we have a house.
Only problem is theyre sticking us out in another town 30mins from 'home' and 40mins from ds school, Only to move us back into home town in january. I know i should be thrilled we finally have a home but im just feel so very sad, we found routine and settled ds in a lovely school, both of us have jobs and juggle things well having close family support, the council were VERY aware of this and had told us the house they had lined up originally would be passed to someone else as it was 40mins away, and we may have to wait a bit longer than usual to stay in our home town, fine we said, we have alot of debts and need to stay in our jobs which we cannot do living away from family. Now this move means i have no choice but to leave my job, possibly move ds and face being very lonely and isolated again, only dp drives and no close family or friends drive, buses are 2hourly and no trains, i just feel like weve been through so much and we finally get some good news and the reality is not so.
go on, flame me, i should be bloody grateful shouldnt i
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this was meant to be the best news in the world, why am i so sad?
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JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns · 09/06/2011 09:38
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