So. A bit of background. My parents took very good care of DB and me when we were quite young. When I was eight we moved about a thousand miles away from our extended family and my mother began what, twenty years later, I recognize as a depressive episode. She didn't really care what we looked like, what kind of clothes we wore, if our hair was neat, if our home and our bedrooms were tidy. Also my brother has had mental health and addiction issues from about the age of 14 on, so attention was otherwise diverted. For many years family relations were a bit shaky but for the most part are much better now.
Anyway. Now that I have DS I wouldn't say I'm overly obsessed with appearances or anything (in fact it's only recently that I've learned how to tidy up properly) but I do like his things to be nice because mine never were as a child. His clothes are almost totally second hand but very nice, etc. Anyway I've been painting and decorating his room this week. Something I'd ordered (a wall decal with his name on it) came today and we put it up. I was still working on painting the trim in his room so the paint was still in there. I should have moved it, I know. I told him not to play in there (his toys were out of his room in a little play area on the landing) and usually, even though he's not quite four, he's good about things like that. I didn't even think to check on him when he went up to play for about ten minutes; I called up a couple of times but didn't go up.
DH was due home (DS was downstairs eating supper at this point) and I went up to check and make sure his bed was still made and looking nice so we could show DH the room and wall decal. I walked up and saw that DS had spilled about three quarters of the gallon of white paint all over his carpet.
I just started to cry. I know that's stupid and it's my fault anyway for not moving the paint or making sure the lid was tighter at the very least, but...I don't know.
Anyway, I can't believe I've written such a long entry about this and I know I'm being stupid. :( Tell me I'm BU and I'll get on with it. :)
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CheerfulYank · 09/06/2011 00:16
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