The step-Dad naming thread reminded me that I was irritated by this, and I thought I'd see if I'm being very irrational about it.
We have friends who insist on other children (i.e. our DD, DC of their friends) calling them "Aunty Name" and "Uncle Name". At the weekend when we all met up, I've noticed that they've also started referring to us to their DC as "Aunty Viola" and "Uncle Viola's husband".
I'm quite uncomfortable with it. Aunt/Uncle to me is a very specific title - and refers to siblings (half/step included) of the parents - and, in our family uncles & aunts of the parents too. My DD has plenty of uncles and aunts and they are very special to us.
AIBU to find it weird that they are so insistent about it (and if I'm not, how do I make them stop?!)
I get that they do it as a sort of a "you're a good friend, and it's a nice title" but I'm just finding it more and more irritating. (I will admit to finding it doubly irritating when the husband of the couple does it as I don't get on as well with him and find him quite odd, so that may be feeding in to it)
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to not want them to make my child call them "Aunty/Uncle"
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vvviola · 08/06/2011 11:10
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