I've got a pal who rings me up and says "Can I pop round today" with one or all three of her sons. It kind of niggles that she doesn't invite me round to her place because I personally would not suggest going over to someone's house unless I was invited. I would invite them to my home or suggest meeting out somewhere. Am I being ridiculous?
um wow, I don't have a problem with this. I don't do it to others though. one acquaintance of mine sometimes just pops over unannounced. that's fine by me, the only thiing that irritates is when she then tells me my house is messy!
Thaigreen, that's how I feel - I just wouldn't invite myself to someones house. My friend is a good pal but if I want to see her, I ask if she's free to pop over for a coffee and kids can play in garden or suggest a trip out. I just wouldn't feel right asking to go to her house with my kids in tow.