Ok so Myself, DP, Ds1 (3.4) and DS2 (16mo) have arranged to go on holiday with DP's best friend and wife and their DD (9mo).
We are not much looking forward to it as we will be staying in their apartment which they have been to often, and having two toddlers is very different to having one baby. So our approach has been to try and lower our expectations of how actually relaxing this might be.. i.e not to imagine that there will be long boozy lunches followed by hours lounging in the sun. Instead to prepare for children that won't sleep well due to unfamilarity/heat/illness derived from aeroplanes and snatching a couple of hours when they nap in the afternoon. We have tried to underline our concerns to our friends and they seem to understand so lets wait and see.. until...
DP comes up with genius idea that we should just take DS1. Leave DS2 with grandparents. This is, apparently, because I am always advocating avoiding stressful situations with toddlers. FFS I am, but in the style of dont mention chocolate when just about to sit down to eat lunch, not abandon one of your children because they don't quite fit your idea of a holiday for a week! AIBU? He says yes, he is only just over ayear and a week at nana's would be holiday in itself for him . I say this is bonkers, you cannot select one child over the other, and even if he doesn't understand now he will soon come to hear about it from older brother when he is older!
I am a 2n dchild and cannot imagine how hurt I would have been knowing my parents had chosen my sister to take on holiday, no matter at what age.
DP is an only child and has no grasp of such things. Only that I am a stupid hippy (his words, not mine).
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Taking only one of your DCs on holiday
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Chunkamatic · 07/06/2011 00:21
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