Hi everyone,
Trying to figure out the logistics around moving from the Midlands to St. Albans - I'm already based in London (and doing a hideous long and expensive commute and/or nights away), but a move would need to be based on my partner finding a suiteable job in the area.
One concern she has about even interviewing is the the risk of having to take a job on say, two months notice, and move our 6 y/o DD out of school mid year. I'm thinking it'd be challenging but if we do a lot of upfront reserach on school catchment areas, housing in our budget to rent, etc, we could rent a house in a good catchment area for a good school (of which there are lots in St. Albans I believe), and after some adjustment, our DD will be making new friends - it'd be tough for her to leave friends she's had, in some cases since nursery, not to mention tough for my partner, but the fact that I could be around a lot more to help and provide support for both of them would help mitigate those challenges (my DD is super attached to me too and hates me being away). I'm thinking there'd be some short term pain, but things would be better in the long term.
My partner's favoured alternative is waiting to move somewhere around London in 4+ years before our DD starts secondary school, but I think it'll be harder on her then (and for that matter, my partner) - especially since we're planning on having a baby in around 2 years.
Anyone have any thoughts on this? AIBU? By the way, any specific views on how to get into a good school mid-school year (especially around St. Albans) would be hugely appreciated!
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canuckstepdad · 06/06/2011 15:38
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