he hasn't seen ds for ever 5 years since ds just turned 1. He also has another ds who is about 3 who he sees sometimes.
The last 'proper' job he had was 5 years ago as a security guard which he was sacked from for steeling and pissing in people's drinks without them knowing.
Since then he has claimed incapacity benefit for a bad back whilst also doing odd jobs on the side for cash in hand. one of which was a labouring job for his uncle's building company
His aunt - my ds's great aunt, who has a lot of regular contact with my ds has told me that he turned up at hers the other day. (she lives with her dad - ex's grandad who is very ill at the moment). the aunt asked if he could do some gardening for them and he said no cos his back. She offered him £10 and he did it, taking the money.
one afternoon last week the aunt asked if he could go round to hers for an hour to sit with his grandad as he'd been on his own for a large part of the day and she got held up at work. He said no.
a few days later kindly offered to sit with his grandad for a few hours per day - if she paid him £10 per time!!!
When he was round there doing the garden, his grandad fell over and ex scooped him up off the ground and carried him to his bed - clearly proving he is not incapacitated.
im not denying he may have some medical thing wrong with his back. But do people like this just get to go the rest of there lives without having to work just cos he's exaggerated to the doc a bit/ its already been 5 years of free money. he can clearly do SOME kind of job if he can do gardening, labouring and carrying heavy loads for a price, so how many years is this going to go on for?
Its a complete slap in the face every time i hear about him doing something he 'shouldn't' be able to do. He owes me £1000s in csa arrears from when he did work, and out of his benefit money ds gets £3.36 per week. whats the fucking point??? it doesn't even cover 2 days of school dinner money. Yet i have full childcare to provide, a part time job, and im studying. he cant even go and sit on a chair next to his grandad for a couple of hours whithout expecting £10 for the trouble.
fucking tosser. and the system is a joke because of all the millions of tossers like him who are allowed to get away with it.
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juicychops · 06/06/2011 15:06
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