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to want two fuck buddies?

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bitofthisandthat Mon 06-Jun-11 09:15:11

The bloke i am sleeping with at the moment lives quite far away so i dont get to see him very often. We have both agreed that we dont want a relationship and it will just be sex.
But now i have met another man i really fancy - i dont want a relationship with anyone but i would like to have purely physical r-ship with him.
I know its up to me, but i'm just worried about my friends/family finding out and thinking I'm "slutty" or similar.
(I have male friends who have several women they just sleep with and they dont receive any flak about it.)

GypsyMoth Mon 06-Jun-11 09:17:00

why stop at two??

Hullygully Mon 06-Jun-11 09:18:29

just do what you want ffs.

fuckmepinkandcallmerosie Mon 06-Jun-11 09:19:00

Why would anyone else care? Go for it, if you want to. you're all adults.

bluebobbin Mon 06-Jun-11 09:22:19

If both of these men are aware of what's going on, then you're not deceiving them.

Just as long as you're sure that it is healthy for you (in every sense) then fine.

Pedallleur Mon 06-Jun-11 09:27:14

As above but you know you need to be in control and somewhere it may end in tears

bupcakesandcunting Mon 06-Jun-11 09:30:17

Have them both. At the same time. Relay details here. Cheers.

fuckmepinkandcallmerosie Mon 06-Jun-11 09:32:00

Oh yes bupcakes that's a good point. We need details. grin

Hullygully Mon 06-Jun-11 09:32:53

I'd like a son et lumiere presentation

manicinsomniac Mon 06-Jun-11 10:20:05

You're not being unreasonable but that phrase makes me shudder (fuck buddy). That's probably me being unreasonable now!

katvond Mon 06-Jun-11 10:30:18

I hate fuck buddy too.
But OP if it makes you happy go for it. Just don't let any of them fall in love with you lol ;)

katvond Mon 06-Jun-11 10:31:02

Friends with benefits is much better

babybarrister Mon 06-Jun-11 10:33:40

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

cumbria81 Mon 06-Jun-11 10:33:44

Just don't tell anyone about it - simple.

BornInAfrica Mon 06-Jun-11 10:35:30

Hey - you're free to be a spunk bucket if you wish. Why do you think we care?

katvond Mon 06-Jun-11 10:37:36

Borninafrica smile smile smile smile

MooMooFarm Mon 06-Jun-11 10:37:57

I don't see a problem with it - as long as both men know, why does anyone else need to know anyway (apart from us of course - in detail grin).

It's all part of the fun of being single isn't it? Until you're married, or in a committed relationship where love has been declared, you can give yourself permission to have fun with whoever you like (or that was always my rule, anyway).

BornInAfrica Mon 06-Jun-11 10:38:01

Well really!


MooMooFarm Mon 06-Jun-11 10:38:51

'Spunk bucket' shock Thanks for putting me right off my yoghurt....

fuckmepinkandcallmerosie Mon 06-Jun-11 10:39:44

As long as everyone knows, all 3 of you, what is going on, and as long as you're sure you won't develop feelings for one or other of the men, and are prepared to end it if they develop feelings for you, then where's the harm?

and BIA - if they use condoms she won't be a spunkbucket. Would you say such nasty foul things about a man who had a number of ladyfriends on the go at the same time?

LittleMissFlustered Mon 06-Jun-11 10:39:54

Don't say you have friends with benefits... The Daily Mail types will be up in arms about people with 'free money' getting all the fun and sexy hjinx too wink

katvond Mon 06-Jun-11 10:40:05

If you don't want to be a spunk bucket wear a condom as I don't want to see a thread on here from you about you've had sex with two diff men and you don't know who the daddy is.
DNA time on JK I think smile

katvond Mon 06-Jun-11 10:41:20

I had a fuck buddy once it was my vibrator but it broke sad

BabyDubsEverywhere Mon 06-Jun-11 11:10:22

I have had a few fuck buds in my time, sometimes you just want a fuck, not make love, no worry about calling, wheres it going, what does he think of XYZ? Nothing but a good fuck smile bliss....oh youth where have you gone!

Enjoy OP smile

fuckmepinkandcallmerosie Mon 06-Jun-11 11:12:03

Kat - hitatchi magic wand you'll not break that fucker and you don't even need batteries it's mains powered wink

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