I am feeling really let down by the local police. I have been assessed as at medium risk of continuing violence from ex (previously violent to me and children) who has also been harrassing me by text, phone, e-mail etc and then let himself into our house whilst we were out.
This was the last straw and I reported the harrassment to the police. Was referred to the local "beat bobby" for our village, who knows ex quite well from when he lived here. Told him the story and lo and behold he starts saying "Well, I can't believe that XX would do something like that" - to which I said something inane like "Well, you can never tell can you?". He then phoned ex and told him to stop contacting me, fair dos.
Policeman came round to supervise ex removing some furniture from the house. Ex was still refusing to give back keys to house, and (fair enough I suppose) police would not even ask him to give the keys back as "it's a civil matter". I told police I was frightened of what could happen and that I felt really vulnerable as a woman alone with two children knowing a violent man (previously known to the police for violence against me) could let himself into our house at any time. Police just said "Well, what do you expect me to do?" and then to top it all asked ex to give him a lift back to the police station and off they drove together all friendly and joking.
This was a week ago now and I've not had any contact from police to see if I am okay. I am feeling really let down and as if local bobby is just siding with ex and treating me as a hysterical and exaggerating woman. This has really upset me but not sure if IABU as my judgement is a bit skewed here.
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OhWesternWind · 02/06/2011 22:46
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