I have a 6 month DS who we have been having a tough time with sleeping. We made the decision after trying everything else to try controlled crying and wake to sleep. It has taken me two weeks but he finally has slept through from 7-11 then till 6am after milk.
SIL phoned on Monday morning saying she would like to visit for the day, with her two DC. We said great as our 4 year old DD loves them visiting as do we. She turned up on the door step with her 8mth old hacking her lungs up, she had a cold and a chest infection. They stayed all day.
Last night my DS was awake on and off all night and today he had had a raging temperature and come out in a cold. He is vomiting all his milk back due to me struggling to get his temp down.
AIBU to think she could have told us that her DD has a cold before she came? I know I sound petty but I have just had three nights of the best sleep I have had since being about 4mnth pregnant and it has all gone back to bow it was.
I keep thinking that DS is ill when he did not need to be and all the controlled crying we did was a waste and have to be done again. I know kids get I'll but SIL is a very "me" person and I just see it as another example of her not giving a thought of anyone but herself. She was having a difficult day with a very grizzly I'll DD so thought it would be easier with us. I understand that but she never gave any thought to passing the bug on.
I know I am being unreasonable so I suppose this is more of a rant than a question.
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Chucklecheeks · 02/06/2011 20:18
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