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to think oh should have deleted his teenage porn use

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bumbelinarara Tue 31-May-11 18:22:58

So that me and the kids were not subjected to it first thing this morning when I went on Media Player. Should I be worried that it is 'teenage?'. He reassures me it is fine and just a title but I do feel quite uncomfortable.

LiverpoolLeap Tue 31-May-11 18:24:39

Seriously?

Um, yeah, probably you should be worried.

GypsyMoth Tue 31-May-11 18:25:10

yes,i would too...

GypsyMoth Tue 31-May-11 18:25:48

were they teenage children? or adults posing as teens?

WillYouTellMe Tue 31-May-11 18:26:02

oh yuk. Did your children actually see it?

I bet he reassures you it's "fine". I think it is awful and it would seriously disturb me if DH did a search for teenage pornography.

LiverpoolLeap Tue 31-May-11 18:26:47

Adults posing as teens would be legal, but still yucky. Really yucky.

saffy85 Tue 31-May-11 18:27:04

I am in no way anti porn but I would be livid if that popped up on my computer, especially if DD was hanging around as she often does.

As for the teenage in the title, from what I can gather, most of them haven't been teenagers for a good long while, they're just dressed like them because it appeals to certain people.

In short YANBU. He should have deleted it.

TidyDancer Tue 31-May-11 18:27:06

I'm one of the ones who has no issue with porn per se, but I bloody would have an issue with this!

Him leaving it for you and the children to find is more worrying than the title tbh, but that does concern me too.

bumbelinarara Tue 31-May-11 18:28:00

adults posing I guess but does that make it OK?

LiverpoolLeap Tue 31-May-11 18:28:34

If you suspect they are actually underage, that's a whole different (and awesomely disturbing) situation.

And frankly I wouldn't be so concerned about him deleting it, more about him using it in the first place. And telling the little woman that it's just fine.

saffy85 Tue 31-May-11 18:32:18

It's legal for someone to pretend to be a teenager getting fucked senseless, but anyone under 18 would be very illegal indeed.

Only you can decide if you're fine with your DH using porn. It doesn't bother me if my DP does as long as I don't find the evidence of it and more importantly, our DC don't. Your DH has no right to tell you to be fine with it, or that you should be fine with it. I'm a firm believer in different strokes for different folks. Not everyone feels the same about this stuff. Nothing wrong with either opinion.

EricNorthmansMistress Tue 31-May-11 18:37:42

Even if they weren't actual teenagers, isn't it pretty disgusting that the idea of teenagers turns him on?

I'm not completely opposed to porn per se but I could never ever enjoy something where 1) the women looked, or were described as, or treated as young or 2) there was any kind of degrading language or actions. I think there is something odd about enjoying that.

bumbelinarara Tue 31-May-11 18:38:37

i guess it is the word teenage i have a problem with. We are both in late 30s. Also i am very cross it was left for us all to find, but that was obviously an accident.

squeakytoy Tue 31-May-11 18:39:39

isn't it pretty disgusting that the idea of teenagers turns him on?

depends on his age... if he is in his 20's then no.... if he is in his 50's, yes.

HorseWhisperer Tue 31-May-11 18:41:59

Yanbu. I think being turned on by the idea of teenage girls is very weird.

worraliberty Tue 31-May-11 18:48:28

I've got no problem with porn at all and as someone else said, most of these 'teens' haven't been teenagers for a long time!

But leaving the kids to find it is bloody irresponsible.

bumbelinarara Tue 31-May-11 19:04:50

apparently I should just be letting it go

Hassled Tue 31-May-11 19:06:00

I wouldn't bloody let that go. Teenage porn, FFS? Left so your kids could see it? What a twat.

GypsyMoth Tue 31-May-11 19:07:02

he likes women who dress as children!!

MmeLindor. Tue 31-May-11 19:07:43

YABU to be only concerned about the fact that he did not delete it.

"Teenage" porn - why would a 30+ man want to see that?

worraliberty Tue 31-May-11 19:07:48

Hasn't he got a personal laptop or something he can use? I mean other than the family computer?

bumbelinarara Tue 31-May-11 19:09:40

He is apologising til he is blue in the face!... And he loves me

worraliberty Tue 31-May-11 19:10:07

How do you work that out Tiffany? I see little difference to how teenagers dress compared to women in their early 20's.

Bear in mind, the 'teens' are over 18.

bumbelinarara Tue 31-May-11 19:11:40

In his defence, I don't think they were teenagers ( I looked) but the title sends shivers down my spine "All Star Teens"

TheOriginalFAB Tue 31-May-11 19:11:52

Calm down ILT hmm.

Teenagers are not children in the way you mean.

YANBU and he should have definitely not have left anything that your children might see.

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