DS is 11 and has Aspergers, he is coping brilliantly and I am so so proud of him, he has come from hating school/not talking/hiding under tables/not going outside/not eating - to loving school/yapping non-stop/dancing on tables/outside all the time and eating me out of house and home
I have had a very difficult relationship with his Dad since we split up 9 years ago, minor DV, loads of EA and undermining my parenting and lots of court orders
His Dad has never accepted DS has Aspergers, he believes its my bad parenting
He has always pushed him into doing things that I have told him DS is anxious about ie. swimming, barbers, slides, play centres etc
How do I approach this with DS?
btw I have told DS (on professional advice) that his Dad doesnt understand Aspergers because he doesnt live here but it doesnt mean he doesnt love you)
I really think his Dad will cause lasting damage to his mental health if this carries on
DS is very intelligent and can handle facts, its passive aggressive stuff he has difficulty with
I have left out MASSIVE amounts of detail for now as I really want to see if this thread will be any help to my DS
also we are in Ireland, so no CAFCASS or CAMBS and I dont get legal aid so represent myself in court
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RCToday · 30/05/2011 01:10
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