Please bear with me as I am trying to write this without giving away revealing details.
I know a woman who is a single parent to an 8yr old girl.
The woman is an alcoholic. She already had her daughter in foster care just over a year ago while she went into rehab. Here we are with her back to drinking, and not just socially.
She has lost drastic amounts of weight.
Now this little girl means the world to me as does her mum, I was at the birth and held her before anyone else. The mum tells people "She is her baby but child". So I feel I am doing a great disservice to her.
But the little girl is phoning people to come and help her "Wake mummy up"
The other week the mum called me and asked me to go and help her as she had been drinking and was in a state.
I got there and made her coffee, bathed and dressed my girl, then made them both dinner.
I know if SS get wind of her drinking the little girl will be gone into care and she will be hard pushed to get her back - if at all.
So how or what should we do? There are a circle of 6 friends who are all worried what is going to happen. Please understand we don't want to call SS as she will lose her child, and I know this is not what is best for either of them. She is a fantastic mum, but she has problems.
I would take the little girl while she got herself sorted out but don't know if she would let that happen.
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HelpUsDecide · 29/05/2011 11:00
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