Before I start I would like to make it clear that DS is 20.
He is currently unemployed (has CP and has had one interview in 18 months but thats another rant) so is around the house alot. I went out yesterday, told him when i would be back and he said he was going to his mates and would be staying over. All good.
I got back a wee bit earlier than expected and when I tried to unlock the door (deadlock rather than Yale) it was already unlocked. I was a bit annoyed as our door opens straight onto the street and the rule is that is must be kept locked at all times. So I shouted that I was back.....no answer. Looked for him and no sign. He had gone out and not bothered locking the door behind him! I rang him and he got very stroppy with me and just kept saying "look I am sorry, OK?" to which I said that no it wasnt ok, and if we had been burgled there would be sod all we could do about it as the house wasnt secure so the insurance wouldnt pay out and did he have several thousand pounds to replace the TV, laptop blah blah?
So i yelled at him that when he got back to today he could hand his key over and if we werent here when he got back in future he will have to wait on the bloody doorstep. Of course my mother, who thinks the sun shines out of his backside, said I was over reacting I think he was lucky I couldnt get hold of him. It was partly the fact that he didnt lock the door but to be fair, I have done it a couple of times when we have been in a rush in a morning, we all make mistakes. It was more his attitude of "SO? It was ok so whats the fuss about?" which made me so mad. When I did it I was paranoid about not doing it again, but he doesnt give a toss.
So, should he keep his key?
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Bogeyface · 28/05/2011 06:03
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