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To not allow DP to do this to me?

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IsThisReallyok01 Fri 27-May-11 20:48:53

Am regular but have name changed as very embarrassed.

DP is a lovely guy and we have been together for a long time. We have always had great sex life and I like to think I am quite liberal.

However, recently, he only seems to be able to ejaculate if I allow him to do it over my face? I am uncomfortable with it. I think it's a bit weird. He says it's horny.

Is this a thing? AIBU?

GypsyMoth Fri 27-May-11 20:49:42

ooooh dont get it in your eye!!!

Choufleur Fri 27-May-11 20:50:32

YANBU. He's being weird. Has he been watching too much porn?

Thingumy Fri 27-May-11 20:51:03

is this a thing?

Yeah a porny sex thing

honeybee007 Fri 27-May-11 20:51:03

It's supposed to be good for your skin......

Is this a serious question?if you are uncomfortable doing this then stop and find something else that works.

Happymm Fri 27-May-11 20:51:24

If you are uncomfortable with it then it's not horny. So therefore you wouldn't BU! It wouldn't be my thing either TBHgrin

humanoctopus Fri 27-May-11 20:51:51

Has he been watching alot of porn?

Sounds like it to me.

Did have a friend who swore that it was excellent for the complexion, but I'd prefer spots grin

TheOriginalFAB Fri 27-May-11 20:52:28

YABU to allow it when it makes you feel uncomfortable. You should never do anything you don't want too.

shineoncrazydiam0nd Fri 27-May-11 20:52:35

FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY.

If you like it, do it.

If you don't, don't.

I predict 324 utterly dull posts from now on in.

TheCowardlyLion Fri 27-May-11 20:52:53

Two warning bells: he 'only' seems to be able to do it like this, and you are uncomfortable with it. Both of those seem to suggest that you need to tackle it with him - if it was part of a range of sexual activities (i.e. he could come in other ways) AND if you found it a turn on too, it wouldn't be an issue, but since that's not the case, YANBU to bring it up with him.

honeybee007 Fri 27-May-11 20:53:21

I didn't mean good for MY skin blush oops

FourFingeredKitkat Fri 27-May-11 20:54:18

ditto to shineon...

humanoctopus Fri 27-May-11 20:54:35

Is he afraid that you may fall pregnant?

Georgimama Fri 27-May-11 20:55:17

Nothing to do with sex should be something "done" to one person by another person, as if they are an inflatable doll. Sex should be something you do together. If you don't want to do this, don't.

And the "only" being able to come like this thing is not good. Need addressing pronto.

BertieBotts Fri 27-May-11 20:55:56

<claps shiney>

FabbyChic Fri 27-May-11 20:57:40

It is normal! Only prob is if you get it in your eye, it stings!

IsThisReallyok01 Fri 27-May-11 20:58:25

I find it weird and will speak to him about it. Don't think he watches porn?

Curiousmama Fri 27-May-11 20:58:50

Wear swimming goggles.

GypsyMoth Fri 27-May-11 20:59:32

it does fabby!!

op,i'm guessing he DOES watch porn.......

StewieGriffinsMom Fri 27-May-11 20:59:43

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Georgimama Fri 27-May-11 21:02:13

A sudden recent interest in a particular sexual practice that he has never been into before has come from somewhere. I'd be very surprised if it hadn't come from watching porn.

heleninahandcart Fri 27-May-11 21:03:39

Agree totally with cowardlyLion said.

Its definitely a porn thing. There is also a whole genre devoted to women wearing glasses. No I didn't see the point either, but the idea is that they can then keep their eyes open at the crucial time to get a better look. This seems to be a male fantasy that we actually want to see that much. Reminds me of little boys being proud when they. Oh the glamour... hmm

Icelollycraving Fri 27-May-11 21:05:56

It's a v porny thing IMO. Maybe he is trying to spice things up? Don't get it in your hair though lol,stustustudiofix!!

heleninahandcart Fri 27-May-11 21:06:06

Cuirousmama swimming goggles are indeed a more specialist area of this genre grin

SunshineisSorry Fri 27-May-11 21:07:58

I wouldnt have a problem per se, its better luck than only having a guy who can cum in your mouth i guess. But i want it in me see, thats how babies are made grin

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