Some of the nicest women I know are inexplicably single, while some of the nastiest, laziest and most unattractive are with lovely men. I don't get it sometimes. Perhaps a degree of cunning is required if you are not naturally lucky early on or something!
That's very true Nijinsky, I know of people the same. Some horrible horrible people seem to end up with lovely partners, while some gorgeous lovely people I know are eternally single. I have no idea what that's about!
Come here Caan. Let's eat choccie digestives together. I have been with DP for over 10 yrs. Have a couple of kids. Not married. He did ask me in a romantic manner to live with him. I mistook that for possible marriage proposal. But with hindsight I think he meant 'pair up my socks, cook yummy food, host entertaining evenings for my friends and business clients oh and have my kids.'
I amuse myself by reading the Bridezilla threads. I'll never wed now. Not after reading those. Shudders.
do you know what, marriage SHOULD be about loving someone, but often it isn't. often people propose just because their OH wants them to or they feel they should (i know a few cases of this myself) in fact i married my ex because we had been together so long i felt we "ought to" and guess what, it ended inside a year and for what its worth i then met and married new DH and we are really happy.
so don't assume that no one has loved you "enough" it isn't always as black and white as that. i hope you feel a bit more positive today (and not too hungover haha)