Could just be a massive case of PFBitis but am quite upset for him so here goes.
He's 5, started school 2 weeks ago and initially seemed to be settling in fine - came home shattered but reasonably chirpy, talking about some other boys in the class he'd been sitting with & playing with at break times.
Today he says that now he's mostly playing by himself and that none of the other boys want to be his friend any more. When he goes to sit next to them in class they get up and move somewhere else. He doesn't seem bothered unless I try to ask him about it and then when we talk he gets upset and cries.
I don't want him to be the odd kid that nobody likes but not really sure what to do - can't force the other children to be friends if they don't want to be.
Do all children go through this? Do I need to be in the "in clique" of about 6 mothers who all seem to know each other? (class size 14). Hate thinking he's getting so upset about this. I know he can make friends, he has a few mates from nursery who have since gone on to different schools.
Any suggestions?
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..to be worried / upset for my son?
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TechnoKitten · 13/05/2011 09:14
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