Sorry if this is a bit rambling but as the summer approaches I am getting more and more anxious about this. We have neighbours who are over friendly - when we first moved in we did the usual thing of drinks/etc..and saying hello and exchanging numbers in case of emergencies. The kind of relationship I would like would just be saying hello - doing bits if needed (like keeping an eye on house when away/collecting parcel if we are not in etc..)
The woman seems to be quite lonely and started to stalk me with calls and texts which just became too much. It has got to the stage where I will say hello - but I stopped answering phone which i felt awful about but it was really stressing me out to the point where i felt i could not relax in own home.
However with summer coming up I am really looking forward to getting outside with my daughter who is nearly one. They also have a baby and I am really worried she is going to start hassling me again and wanting to come over/chat etc..when all I want to do is just chill out in my garden with my DP and DD.
When we have had friends over in the past she makes a point of coming into garden and looking over and trying to catch my eye and it just makes me very uncomfortable. AIBU?
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steben · 17/03/2011 12:03
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