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AIBU?

to insist DP doesn't get into jammies when he gets in?

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doricpatter · 15/01/2011 23:12

He's just back from work. I've been on my own all evening and we've hardly seen each other for days. He comes in looking all masterful in his uniform and goes straight upstairs and reappears ten minutes later in a hoodie and trackie bottoms. AIBU to tell him I expect him to pull his weight with regard to keeping the spark?

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BitOfFun · 15/01/2011 23:14

Depends what the uniform is really. Airline pilot or Lollipop Man?

nemofish · 15/01/2011 23:23

YANBU.

Dh keeps an old high vis jacket in the back of the wardrobe, for, ahem, special occasions. And some workmans' boots. Phwooooar... I do like a bit of rough.

ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo · 15/01/2011 23:25

@ nemo

FaffTastic · 15/01/2011 23:26

A hoodie and trackie bottoms aren't proper jammies though are they. But then, I have a bit of a fetish where sometimes a man in a hoodie can make me go a bit weak (especially if its a grey hoodie for some reason). Would much prefer the uniform depending on what it is though.

doricpatter · 15/01/2011 23:27

BoF

He's not a cop but works with the police and has suitably manly attire. So he swans in, having been wrestling crims all night, and now he's got fucking crocs on.

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BluddyMoFo · 15/01/2011 23:27

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doricpatter · 15/01/2011 23:29

It's a grey hoodie! But epaulettes are sexier for sure.

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Dansmommy · 15/01/2011 23:29

Hoodie and trackies fine....crocs I'd throw out. It's never OK for a man to wear them!

doricpatter · 15/01/2011 23:30

It's 11.30 here too ... But you'd think he could hold off for half an hour, surely?

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FaffTastic · 15/01/2011 23:33

Grey hoodie!

May have to go on google images for a bit to indulge my strange fetish. My DH refuses to wear anything with a hood much to my dismay -and my weird sexual fantasies

kaymondo · 15/01/2011 23:36

dansmommy - apparently brad pitt is a crocs fan!

moondog · 15/01/2011 23:38

OOh nasty.The Crocs detail is a real needle careering off the record moment.

ChinaCup · 15/01/2011 23:38

He works with the police but isn't a cop?

Is he a traffic warden? My God, please don't tell me you get all worked up in the bedroom over his fixed penalty notice?

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doricpatter · 15/01/2011 23:40

That's quite weird Faff. It's a Fox one and as hoodies go it's alright but I'm managing to contain my desire without too much difficulty

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A1980 · 15/01/2011 23:41

YABU

When I get back from work, I want the clothes that have been on me from 7am to 7pm off! I want something comfortable on. I don't blame him for puuting comfy clothes on after a long day at work.

Does he ask you to dress sexily for him when he gets home from work?!

xstitch · 15/01/2011 23:42

I get into my PJs quite often when I get from work. Get in about 11pm.

Sidge · 15/01/2011 23:43

The hoodie and trackie bottoms wouldn't bother me unduly but the Crocs are a step too far.

Instant passion killer!

doricpatter · 15/01/2011 23:43

Dear lord China noooo! He's a custody officer. I could never get my kicks from a traffic warden, ugh!

Incidentally, they're man-crocs. Not lustworthy I'll admit, but not lurid pink or anything.

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ilovesooty · 15/01/2011 23:45

YABU. It seems quite understandable to me that he would want to put on something comfortable after a hard day's work.

AllSheepareWhite · 15/01/2011 23:46

I put on my trackie bottoms and comfy clothes when I get in at 5pm, DH is entitled to do the same should he feel the need! It is not the wrapping, but what is underneath that counts :o

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doricpatter · 15/01/2011 23:47

Shiny you're a cop, aren't you? I ask one thing of you - don't shatter my illusions by telling me about how they drink tea, fill in forms and make toast all night. How will I get my kicks if it's true?!

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nickschick · 15/01/2011 23:49

Ohhhhh I thought he was a pcso

ChippingIn · 15/01/2011 23:49

Of course he should keep it on, act masterful and have his wicked way with you on the settee.... what is the man thinking?? I mean trackies, hoodies and crocs - hardly the attire that makes you go 'phwoarrrrr' is it??

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