i probably am, but i'm tired so be gentle
DP's mum has been a nightmare since ds was born 4 months ago. She is convinced that she is being pushed out of DS's life because her and i dont get on. I have never stopped her seeing DS, in the first few weeks she would be round every day hours at a time with me making cups of tea and playing hostess when i wanted to sleeeeep!
anyway last month she had issue with the fact that DP never took DS to visit at her house and that she always came here, so DP took to popping round (she lives 2 min walk away) with ds having an hour there.
So today DP says mum is coming here as soon as dp gets home from work, which would normally be fine, but I'm not feeling great, DS had me up all night, the house is a tip and i just wanted DP to take over when he gets in so i can have a nice soak in the bath.
So i suggest he goes there, but has said no because his mum hasnt been here for a while...
surely if she gets to spend time with DS and DP it doesnt matter? i dont see the difference....
I think what ever i suggested it'd be 'pushing her out'
this is so trivial but i'm post menstrual
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storminabuttercup · 13/01/2011 12:57
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