Background, DD who's under a year has some awkward food intollerances (wheat, gluten, dairy & soy), even sensitive to what I eat, (still BF.)
Just feeling a bit unimportant to DH's family, no that's the wrong word, not bothered about is more like it, I don't need to be important IYSWIM.
It's a family member's birthday soon and I saw a one of DH's relatives coming out of supermarket with a massive trolley load for said party, said hi etc. She said she'd nothing suitable for me apart from fruit. Asked her if she wanted me to eat before the party or bring my own food?
My own family made such a lovely effort when we went round for New year it made me feel like someone gives a shit what DD and I are going through. It's been really tough but worth it to keep her pain free.
I'm not asking for my own cake or anything, but it's so easy to pick up a couple of free from buns etc, plain crisps with no flavourings (most have milk or wheat?!?)
I think it's because I would go out of my way to cater for someone coming to my house with dietary needs, or even veggie as I've always done for some of DH's family, I feel a bit crap about the lack of even a tiny bit of effort. Not once since my diet's been restricted (7m for dairy, soy & 4m for wheat and gluten) has any of them made an attempt to cater for me. There was a memorable get together before Christmas, the only things i ate were a few cherry toms and a pack of plain crisps that I had in the car. I hope to goodness DD's not going to be like this forever, or she'll end up feeling like a real pain in the bum to her dad's side of the family, I think if it get's that far I'll have to tell them to suck it up and make an effort for her!
Just feeling sorry for myself i think, give me a slap and tell me to shut up!
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AIBU?
to feel a bit upset, or just an over sensitive wuss?
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fiveisanawfullybignumber · 08/01/2011 14:39
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