This happens quite often if we are out and he is driving. Phone rings. He asks me to look and see who it is. I do. It is some mate of his. He then asks me to answer it. And I very rarely do, because I think it is utterly pointless for me to answer and say "sorry, dh is driving at the moment so will call you back when we've stopped", like some sort of Miss Moneypenny-esque secretary.
If he was driving on his own, he would not pick up. He would check to see who had called when he'd stopped driving and then decide whether to call them back or not.
If the situation were reversed, I would never, ever expect (or indeed want) him to answer my phone. I would assume that if one of my friends is calling me, then they want to talk to me.
I also realise that it is ever so petty and effectively no actual bother for me to answer his phone :o but for some reason it really riles me and I do not want to do it.
So, AIBU? :o
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