Long story so will try to break it down.
In short DD8's father has stopped paying maintenance since August, he now owes me over £1000 he says he isn't working which I am not sure I believe.
He is remarried with 4 step children. These children have 3 different fathers that all pay maintenance for their own children.
Before Christmas DD said that her new bedroom which she shares with her youngest step sister had been redecorated with brand new beds, bedlinen, furniture and TWO tv's. After Christmas DD came home and told myself and DH how many presents she received etc.
DH and I cant afford these type of things for DD. I'm getting a little about how he is affording to pay for all these things, DD says that every time they go shopping Daddy gets his card out and says to his DW "I'll get this..." Pub lunches every other weekend etc etc
If I am honest, it's really pissing me off as he seems to forget that his own daughter needs a roof over her head, food and heating etc. If he can afford things like I have mentioned why can't he afford maintenance.
I have been to the CSA and I was told that as he is not working or claiming any benefits I was entitled to nothing!
I'm sorry for the ramblings but I am really, really
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blondieno1 · 04/01/2011 14:13
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