I don't really want to but ds is very upset as he gets a lot of negative vibes from the gf and has done for a while.
My exp did leave me for her in 2004 when she was just 16 (yeah I know, 10 year age gap)but things have moved on, wouldn't say we are all pally pally but we all have a civil relationship with each other, get on reasonably well and both are supportive when it comes to ds (he has adhd)
Now and again my children come home upset and say gf ignores them, goes upstairs won't speak, dd1 takes it in her stride but it really upsets ds and he feels that its him sensitive soul that he is. I have had it out with her before and she did seem shocked and horrified and things did improve but...
they came home from thier dads this morning subdued, ds said dad warned us to behave on boxing day because gf was in a mood, she disapeared upstairs all day and acc to ds spoke to dd but not to him. (dd has backed him up)
So ds has said if gf doesn't pack it in then he is adamant he won't be going again would I be unreasonable in supporting his decision.
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in supporting my 10 year old son in not seeing his dad because of his dads g/f
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sheepgomeep · 28/12/2010 21:13
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