It really pisses me off, I do think I over react to it but I hate sleazy innuendos and leery comments. Even if i'm watching a film or reading a book with a pervy man in it i'm thinking 'oh fuck off' and it ruins it for me. I never used to be so against it, I was always a bit of a flirt, enjoyed a laugh etc but now I get annoyed at simple comments like "I wouldn't mind you keeping my bed warm at night [wink]" Maybe I am just getting old [hmm] (nearly 28) but I look at most men now and just think 'go away' I do have a DP but have always been comfortable around men in pubs and stuff but the last few months I just can't be arsed with any of the banter, it doesn't have to be directed at me, it can be directed at anyone and it makes me think urrrgggghhh. Do I need to lighten up? I think I probably do.