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To really hate sleazy men.

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LeroyJethroGibbs Mon 27-Dec-10 12:38:27

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Goblinchild Mon 27-Dec-10 12:40:06

No, I think you are becoming more discerning in your old age. smile

PressureDrop Mon 27-Dec-10 12:41:42

<shudders>

I hate those sort of comments. Creeperama. I just think 'sad perv'. YANBU at all.

sickoftheholidays Mon 27-Dec-10 12:44:18

mmm I dunno. I'm not prudish at all, I laugh at dirty jokes, and dont mind a bit of smutty banter and risque comments, but if I think for a moment that the bloke in question means it rather than just saying it for a laugh then I'm afraid it makes my skin crawl.

LeroyJethroGibbs Mon 27-Dec-10 12:44:50

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Mahraih Mon 27-Dec-10 13:02:59

YANBU, I feel exactly the same way, have done since I was about 13 (when the innuendo first started) so nothing to do with age!

It really grates - the implication that you WILL be happy with their comments, the suggestion that you might LIKE being talked to like a piece of meat, and the man who simply assumes it is OK to talk to a woman like that. I'm ok with dirty jokes/banter, but it isn't banter when one person is saying vile things and making the other uncomfortable, regardless of gender.

At best it's annoying and at worst it is threatening, I don't have time for it. As for women flashing the flesh - a woman shouldn't have to cover herself from head to toe in order to avoid male attention. A short skirt doesn't = 'grope me now'.

Grrr.

Binfullofgibletsonthe45 Mon 27-Dec-10 13:25:11

I have lost the tolerance of any of it from work colleagues or casual acquaintances. Jonathon Ross has become more creepy too.

Don't get me wrong I love open hilarious filth just the innuendo I can't stand, or the letching.

Binfullofgibletsonthe45 Mon 27-Dec-10 13:28:22

Oh and the other thing I have lost all patience with is open snogging in public areas like the underground or a cinema.

The fact that you can see tongues whirling around like soggy pants in a tumble dryer and hear that sucky spitty noise, eeeeuww.

nomoreheels Mon 27-Dec-10 13:35:35

You need to start going to nicer pubs!

EmmaBemma Mon 27-Dec-10 13:38:16

what an odd thread! are you really expecting many YABUs? "oh, I love sleazy men, me, the pervier the better - I really like to feel uncomfortable in male company"

AnyFuckerisFucked Mon 27-Dec-10 13:40:31

I have no time for it either

no, I refuse to be flattered by he "MILF" type comments

you need to be either 1) rather young and silly (like I used to be) or 2) of low self esteem to think these are anything other than thinly-veiled references to "woman = sex object"

AnyFuckerisFucked Mon 27-Dec-10 13:41:13

emma, I think that some women do lap up these types of comments

Binfullofgibletsonthe45 Mon 27-Dec-10 13:52:52

Phwoarr anyfucker I bet you don't get many of them to the pound. wink.nudge.wink . Ooooo I dropped me car keys - while yer down there love....

scoobytoo Mon 27-Dec-10 13:56:15

I have to say I used to hate those comments in my 20's but now (I am much older than you) I am so chuffed even if I get a wolf whistle from a builder! Beggars can't be choosers wink

AnyFuckerisFucked Mon 27-Dec-10 14:02:11

binfull, strangely, when those comments come from you, I find them a complete turn on ...

< watches binfull disappear into the distance leaving beehind only a plume of dust >

grin

Binfullofgibletsonthe45 Mon 27-Dec-10 14:05:48

Nope still here, fiddling with my medallion and undressing you with my come to bed eyes....

Lol scooby, brilliant.....

<Actually fiddling with nail file and have go to bed eyes....and sticky up hair....>

AnyFuckerisFucked Mon 27-Dec-10 14:07:07

binfull, gizza flash of your white socks and grey placky shoes

gwan..

Binfullofgibletsonthe45 Mon 27-Dec-10 14:09:14

And a bounce around in the back of my Ford Granada....?

AnyFuckerisFucked Mon 27-Dec-10 14:10:16

ohhh, I'm yours

does it have a fur ceiling ?

Binfullofgibletsonthe45 Mon 27-Dec-10 14:16:57

If you mean the mould, then errrr yeah!

LeroyJethroGibbs Mon 27-Dec-10 14:45:37

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classydiva Mon 27-Dec-10 14:48:20

In your old age you realise it is really just bullshit to try to get someone in the sack.

It is not flattering in fact it is pathetic.

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