First up, I am sorry if I offend anyone who has less living space than us.
Our house has a lounge, a study/office and a kids' room. The "kids' room" has cable TV and the lounge has Freeview TV.
The lounge was really carefully put together to give me a "chill space" because I work long hours, self-employed and work from home in the "office". It is a calm and really nice space - ot that was the plan!
DS1 (teenager) is totally monopolising the kids' room with his XBox and the cable TV and he snarls at anyone who ventures in there. (None of the rest of us are interested in the extra cable stations, BTW - the cable thing was an accident because we didn't think that we would get digital reception here! We bought a bundle of phone, broadband and TV because it was the cheapest option.)
DS2 can't get at any of the toys in the kids' room because DS1 is hogging it. So DS2 has migrated to the lounge and monopolises the TV with his PS3 and Nintendo Wii.
DH is capable of getting fierce and insisting to watch something more interesting on TV, but only when it is something that he wants to watch or that he and DS2 can watch together. (So forget DVDs like Notting Hill, The Queen, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, Pride & Prejudice and an incy-wincy bit of Reality TV!)
And me? In the evening I end up in the study/office watching live TV on the computer at the same desk I work at all day! No sofa, no chill, no change of scene.
I know, I KNOW I am just being soft, but what do I do? This has gone on for 3 - 4 years now and I am pig-sick of it!
The only suggestion that I knolw I can't cope with is "get another TV"! It is so tempting, and I have been looking at recliner chairs for the study/office lately as well, but WHY should I have to do that? And the last thing I need is TVs in the bedrooms - policing that would be a nightmare!
I do know that this is not the most important thing in the world right now, but please can you knock some sense in to me? (Prepares for bruises!)
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MustBeeNewName · 26/12/2010 20:50
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