Five years ago, when I was pregnant with DS, I found out that my supposedly best friend was having an affair with my (ex) DH. I was completely devastated, hurt and humiliated - so much so that I contemplated suicide. I didn't because of my child. I left DH and brought up DS by myself in a foreign country with no family or support system and did a pretty good job of it under the circumstances! My BF and DH broke up after a while and she went back to the UK. D(ex)H and I became friends again for the sake of our DS but as for my 'friend', I still hate her.
Yesterday, she sent me a message out of the blue saying she heard that I was back in the UK for Christmas and wanted to meet me for a chat and a chance to explain everything. Also, she said that she wanted my DS to meet his half-brother...news to me! I don't want anything to do with her or her child and I certainly don't want my son to know about his half-brother if she is being truthful about it (She has a reputation for being generous with her favours, if you know what I mean!)
Am I being unreasonable? I sent her a short, succinct note saying 'Go away, rotten person' (or words to that effect) and now I can feel the old resentment and anger building up again.
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MrsBowie · 18/12/2010 09:12
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