This is one of the only things that DH and I actually argue about and I can't work out if it's me or him that's in the wrong.
I have had a long-standing problem where I can't fall asleep without having a TV programme on. It has to be something that I've watched lots of times before and something not too exciting. I have tried all sorts to get out of this habit but if I don't have this - I don't fall asleep.
DH did not vocalise that he had a problem with this for years however in the last year ,which I believe corresponds with him now having a job that starts early in the morning,he has. He says that he finds it impossible to get to sleep with the TV on and likes to listen to a short radio program that then turns off and there is black silence.
I cannot sleep with this.
I have suggested that I sleep in the spare room as I need to sleep but DH does not want to sleep without me. I have suggested that he wear an eyemask/have radio in earphones/earplugs etc
DH is not happy with any of these solutions and thinks that it is only fair if we alternate and have one night with TV and then one night with radio. He says that he watches TV for me and it's not fair that I always get my choice.
I know this sounds petty and selfish but it turns into a big argument about once a fortnight now.
What are your opinions?
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to insist that we watch my choice of TV when DH and I are going to sleep?
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Chocolocolate · 16/12/2010 20:57
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