DD2 has been given a few presents from people at school. She asked me to take her shopping so she could buy her friends presents. I said I'd think about it. DD1 decided to tell me that she thinks it's stupid me taking DD2 shopping and that at her age she should be able to shop on her own. Last night, DD2 said to me "don't forget you still need to take me shopping" and DD1 snapped and said "take YOURSELF shopping".
I'm struggling with them both at the moment, both seem to be fighting for my attention, who is in the right here? Do I take her shopping or should she be going herself?
OK, so she won't want to go with a friend to buy presents for friends so obviously she'll want you to go with her. Unless you're very pushed for time, go and enjoy it - soon enough she won't want you. Seems to me its really none of your DD1s business.