Story is roughly this:
We've been engaged a year and saving up for a summer wedding. Half of this DP was a student and then for two months he was unemployed so savings are a grand total of £650.
We also now need to move house in the next few months as DP has got another (permanent job) two hours away.
I am really really sad about having to move. I love living where I live, I will have to leave so many friends and our community behind and start again where I don't know anybody at all.
Because of this I thought it would be really nice to move the wedding up and get married end of January/February time (if there are spaces at the registry office) so that it can be a bit of a leaving party as well as our wedding.
Negatives:
Obviously, our wedding fund is now bookmarked for rental deposit on a new place and moving costs. Although my dad (very kindly) is offering us £1000. So we can still have the wedding and lots of people for a drink and some food at the village hall. (the registry office is really expensive £350 so that and food/drink for 70 friends and family takes up most of £1000 very quickly)
We will be getting married right before we move house and trying to organise both at the same time.
DP would like something 'unique' which since our budget is small means we will have to put lots of time into whatever it is. And we don't necessarily have the time to do that.
Before anybody suggests we have a small intimate wedding and just go out for dinner after this would be my idea of hell. I don't get along with lots of my immediate family - although they will obviously still be invited to a biggish wedding where I can avoid them when I start fantasising about committing acts of violence.
So AIBU to still want to get married ASAP?
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To consider getting married just before we move house?
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LaWeaselMys · 12/12/2010 16:30
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