Dh's brother and his wife announced that she is pg. We were quite surprised because they are corporate high flyers and we never thought they would have kids.
Anyway, went round there for drinks and congrats and got talking about how much life changes when kids come along ( we have a 9 month old ds)
Sil said that life only changes if you let it and she doesn't plan on letting the baby take over . She said that not everyone finds it tough and it depends on your personality as to how well you cope.
This last comment got to me a bit so I replied "your gonna get a bloody great shock love if you think your life won't change. A baby turns your world upside down, you need to be a bit mentally prepared"
Bil called dh later that night to say sil was in tears after we left and they are both upset with me. I don't think what I said was that bad.
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Doobies · 12/12/2010 11:06
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