This year will be very different from previous years on several levels. Me and DH work shifts so usually we have xmas day, boxing day and new years day off. We would both work til 2am xmas morning, go to PILs about 8am til about 10pm, have boxing day to ourselves then new years day with PIL after him finishing work at 2am and me finishing work at 6am. This year I'm on maternity leave and DH is off xmas day, boxing day, NYE night from 7pm and new years day. He wants to spend xmas day, boxing day and new years day with his parents. Since this is our first xmas as parents, I was looking forward to starting our own little traditions as our own family. If my family lived closer, I would expect our time to be split 50/50 between families or even 30/30/40 between families and ourselves so AIBU to not want it to be 100% his family? It's already annoying me that his parents think seeing their granddaughter once a week is not enough but my parents have only seen her when they came to visit for 3 days. Thanks for reading and sorry for the rambling but it's been going round and round my head and probably getting a little jumbled.
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To want some time out from the inlaws over xmas
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asphyxia · 11/12/2010 18:41
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