I'm really not sure about this - tbh I hope I am BU because otherwise I'm worried.
I'm a stepmum to twins age 12, they are in year 8. Basically I'm concerned with how tired they are. They often go to bed before their given bedtime (9pm) - sometimes DH phones soon after 7 and they've already gone up.
I do understand that secondary is tiring, I remember it from when I started yr7 but shouldn't they have adjusted by now?
Bit of background - they have always been made to go to bed early, until starting yr7 it was 8pm in the week. We always respected this - even when little they were perfect angels at bedtime - but now we are wondering if they need more sleep because of it IYSWIM.
The only other thing we can think of is their diet. They eat really badly. One in particular is really fussy but their mum/nan only give them ready meals etc, they eat a lot of junk (when they stay with us they eat quite well, more fruit and veg etc) - maybe they aren't getting enough nutrients etc?
Anyway... Can't think of any other reason as they live near the school and don't get a lot of homework or extra activities etc.
So why are they SO tired? Or is it normal? I'm sure their friends aren't suffering so much, I hate to think of them missing out on socialising etc.
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FreudianSlippery · 10/12/2010 15:58
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