I don't know if this should be in AIBU or parenting or mental health...or even just kept safely in my head...but I'm struggling with this.
My dd1 is bright and full of energy, she enjoys school and is popular - and headstrong! She loves the normal 6 year old stuff (dancing, rainbows), but also is very emotional and has a massively active imagination. She cries at the slightest thing and having friends round for tea usually ends in her crying because they won't play what she wants. She always wants to 'be' a cat or a dog or a dragon or a chipmonk, and I know this sounds so petty and like I'm a terrible mum, but I just want her to stop acting. She is being difficult about lots of things and seems to need to be nagged or have me raise my voice before she'll do as she's told, even with really mundane stuff like getting in the car when I ask her to, getting changed etc. I'm sure she's a normal 6 yr old, but I feel so bad that I can't be bothered with her at the moment and I look forward to when she's in bed. I really don't want to take her out to her clubs or even pick her up from school, but I think that's more the freezing weather, but I feel like I should want to be doing stuff with her. But I don't.
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I have a dd2 who is almost 2 yrs and, although revealing her strong will too, quite chilled and very cute, and I enjoy spending time with her.
I had PND very badly with dd1 when she was born and again (but not so bad) with dd2. I'm still on Antidepressants and have been struggling more lately.
I do have my lovely moments with her and know she's a wonderful, sensitive, loving girl.
So, thanks for reading. Any advice gratefully received...
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to not really enjoy spending time with my 6yr old dd?
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