Please help! My DD is 17 months and has never ever been a good sleeper - she has never EVER slept for longer than two or three hours in a row on a night, and that in itself would be a big treat. She wakes several times during the night for hours at a time, and we are coming to the end of our tether. I am at the point where I am just getting to sleep and it is time to wake up. I have been barely functioning as I am like a zombie, and DH (who is a good help) is getting so tired he is not 'on the ball' for work. We are both intelligent people, adore our DCs, and have tried EVERYTHING and read EVERYTHING we can on this. Nothing works.
With DS (also a bad sleeper) at least he would co-sleep with us, so even though it was not ideal, I was happy to do that and we managed to get at least some sleep. DD will not sleep in with us, she wriggles and wants to play.
She is not upset particularly, just very very clingy and wants to be rocked or walked around with, and will not lie down. SHe is not like this during the day.
I have tried all the usual stuff, we have a bedtime routine, room is dark and quiet...tried background noise...no heating noises...shorter day naps...earlier and later bedtimes...etc....
So... what is the most reasonable next step?
AIBU to be sooo desperate that I am thinking a bit of 'crying it out' might help? I don't really like this method, (tried it with DS in desperation and he would just cry until he vomited, and I felt cruel). Or, do I use all of our spare cash on getting in a night nanny, so we can at least get some sleep, even if we are much worse off. DH thinks this is unreasonable, as at the moment, we can't really afford this.
I am so sleep deprived, I can't think straight. I am starting to feel ill all of the time. Please help!
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To get a night nanny or try sleep training?
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LoveRedShoes · 07/12/2010 11:23
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