....with my dad beacause he keeps intefering and giving unsolicited 'parenting' advice about my DS aged 3.5 yrs. I'm afraid that it drives me crazy when he does this, it really pushes my buttons. He does this quite often and also gets involved in disciplining my DS when we're there. This is not helpful as it means that there are 2 of us trying to discipline.
We went to stay this weekend and DS had a meltdown tantrum as 3 year olds are often prone to do. My dad got really annoyed and said, 'you know you have to be quite strong with him otherwise it going to be really hard in a few years, he's going to be spolit'. and also really annoyingly said, 'I don't see other 3 year olds doing that (having a tantrum)'. I said, 'How many 3 year olds do you know?'!
I happen to know from many a mum in the playground and nurseru that they found 3 quite a tough age and their DS's were a nightmare. I think it's something that DS will grow out of and don't tend to make a big deal.
Everytime we stay my dad and I have a variation on the same argument. I don't think he should get imvolved, he says he should get involved as he is part of the family and has a 'right' to say something. AIBU....or should he have a right? Whatever, I find this so bloody annoying
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To feel really annoyed and angry....
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mumsgotatum · 05/12/2010 20:02
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