As the title suggests, Dh got date in for 2 weeks time.
I don't want any more children, we have 2, & i suffered terribly with hyperemisis in both pregnancies.
I can't take the pill, it sends me mad, don't want a coil etc.. so dh decided he would have the snip, said it was only fair after I have two babies & terrible sickness.
But now the letter has arrived I feel so so so so upset :( It is for the same date that my sister is having her baby delivered by section.
I don't think I want any more babies... I am almost 33, DH is 35 & says he doesn't want anymore either...but I dunno.
I think I am being very childish, I cried today when a mum was BFing her baby in a M&S cafe.... Dh was all flustered, didn't know what to do with me, I pretended there was something in my eye
We don't want anymore children... our family in complete.... but I hate the thought of it never ever being a possibility again.
I am so so confused.
Is this normal?
Please go easy on me... My children are 9 & 6, we've been married 13 years & I love my Dh to bits :) I love him so much, I don't ever want him to have to go through this if I'm going to regret it :(
I don't want to regret it, but how do I come to terms with what's best for our little family?
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Dh has date for vasectomy, I don't want any more children, but AIBU to feel so sad.
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FairhairedandFrustrated · 04/12/2010 20:58
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