Just had number 3 million in a long standing run of arguments with tosser I am unaccountably married to. Yet again I was found guilty before I had done or said anything. <br>For the record, I have long standing issues with his parents. I have been welcoming and friendly to them since long before we were married. They, particularly my FIL, take great delight in seeing if they can get a rise from me. That is not just my opinion, that is the tosser's opinion. He thinks I should just ignore FIL or he'll do it all the more. I will not be ignoring the use of the words "nigger" and "paki" in my home anytime before Hell freezes over! Not once in nearly twenty years has he stood up for me or told his father to get lost. <br> MIL manages to combine hysteria(this was the woman who genuinely believed that I was about to feed prunes to a constipated three week old baby!) with an inablity to let her 42 year old baby go. (During the same visit as the prunes incident, she told me husband seemed very stressed and I must talk to the MW about this! I pointed out that maybe I felt a little stressed having just given birth but she couldn't really see my point)<br>Anyway, enough venting! DC was meant to take dance exams tomorrow but it has been cancelled due to the weather. Having talked to the dance teacher, I was given the option of 19/12 or April. I chose April as DC and Tosser are visiting parents that weekend and it's a five hour drive away. On walking back into the kitchen, I was greeted with, "So, I suppose you chose the 19th just so we can't visit my family?" Where did that come from? <br>Tosser ALWAYS assumes that I will choose the worst possible thing to do or have the nastiest possible motives and I have no idea why. I really, truly am not that person. I honestly am not. Ask my friends, ask my colleagues and they will say that isn't me. So why does the person who is supposed to love me most always think the worst of me? It is so hurtful and he just doesn't see it. Am I being unreasonable? Be honest, I can take it!