My DS is a September born 4 year-old (so due to start Reception next year as probably the oldest in his class).
He goes to a great pre-school 3 mornings a week - they do loads of great activities but don't push the reading/writing beyond knowing letters and writing name/numbers 1-9. He's with a childminder for 2 full days while I work. When he's with me I like to do fun stuff with him - swimming, knocking a football around, playing games etc. I feel that he'll get plenty of time on the reading and writing when he's at school and it's not a race.
However, my friends with similar aged DCs are all talking about the amount of things they do at home to 'support their learning'. They drop in how their DC 'wrote a list for Father Christmas' or 'I've had to buy the Oxford Reading Tree as DD was doing so well with their reading'. They seem to think we should be giving them a head start and if they start school ahead they'll stay ahead. Am I being unreasonable in denying my DS this potential head start and leaving it until he's at school?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
not to be pushing reading/writing etc on my 4yo pre-schooler?
37 replies
tjandpootle · 29/11/2010 19:57
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.