Myself and three school friends have retained the tradition of swapping birthday and Christmas presents even though we are all in our thirties. They are old friends, who I know will be in my life forever, but I'm not close to them on a day to day basis as I have moved so much for work and now live a consoderable distance away.
When the first babies came along we all bought presents for them too at Christmas and birthdays and I enjoyed doing so.
However, one of the girls now has 4DCs and I'm finding it all a bit much - both financially and in terms of time to track all the presents down.
I posted about this specifically regarding Christmas presents a few weeks ago, and on reading the replies have decided that after this year I'm going to do Christmas presents for adults only but will continue to do birthday presents for both adults and children.
Does anybody have any thoughts on a suitable age cut-off for children's birthday presents? The eldest child is currently 10 and if I asked what it wants it is invariably vouchers.
This might sound mean, but it does seem that as children get older they either want more expensive presents or vouchers and I don't really feel the need to be doling out money every year to my friends teenage children.
Is 12 (i.e. pre-teen) maybe a suitable cut off, or should I just continue until they are all 16?
Your thoughts and experiences please,
many thanks,
Katy
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Cut off age for birthday presents for friends children
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KatyS36 · 29/11/2010 15:22
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