DD started reception in September and ever since she started there have been umpteenth little notes in her school bag asking for cash and other contributions. There was the 'wear and tear' fund, requests for alcohol or cakes for the cake stall, requests for cash to help modernise one of the classrooms and most recently I had a letter telling me I had to provide a full fairy costume for dd for the school play.
Fair enough I thought. I understand schools are in dire straits and they need parents to help out. However it was only when I mentioned in the playground how I was having difficulty getting hold of a fairy costume that I was met with stunned glances from the other parents. Apparently they do not have to provide a costume, the school is providing it for them. I then casually asked if they had been asked for money for the 'wear and tear' fund etc and again silence. Further investigation reveals that it is only I and two other parents who have been asked for these things...
So, it seems like the school is administering its own sort of social selection policies, asking the parents who they perceive to be 'well off' to contribute while those they deem to be less well off do not receive the requests for cash etc. Surely this is not right? It is not for the school to make value judgements surely?
Disclaimer: I am not rich, DH and I do OK, but we both work really hard for our money and have very little spare casem
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whyohwhywhy · 29/11/2010 14:59
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