dh has been on late shift the last 3 days. he finishes at 11.30 and gets home about 12. And then stays up until 2-3 am watching TV. then has the cheek to moan the next morning that he is tired. I was particularly annoyed yesterday as I was at work at 8am, he stayed up until 3 and got knocky because I told him to get up and sort out the baby. Now he knew he was looking after her for about 4 weeks so it was not a surprise that I dumped on him.
I have worked shifts all my life until I went back from maternity leave so I know that you need a bit of a wind down when you get in but FFS, 3 hours ? When you know you're looking after the baby 5 hours later ? And then be too tired to actually do it properly (he made her stay in bed with him all morning )
He thinks I am being unreasonable; I hardly get a minute to myself nlow I am back at work and frankly think he is behaving like a child
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Fibilou · 25/11/2010 08:32
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