I live near the sea and got up early yesterday to go for a walk on the beach. It was quite early (between 7.30 and 8am) so not many people out and about, but a few dog walkers etc. As I walked along there was a woman quite a bit in front of me with a small white dog. I watched as it raced towards this young Chinese couple, barking, and then ran around their ankles yapping at them. It wasn't a large dog by any means but was acting aggressively, and I think the girl was a bit scared as she clung to her boyfriend. He kept putting his foot out to the dog, not to kick it, but as if to say, 'if you try to bite us I will kick you.' I'm not saying that was the right thing to do, and was probably enraging the dog further, but they were obviously worried that the dog would bite them. The woman, who looked about 30, made no effort to hurry over to the dog, but casually wandered up to them. Before she got there she did call the dog but it took no notice. Don't know what was said when she got near to the couple, but then the dog ran off and the couple could walk away.
So then the dog went racing up to another dog who had, until then, been quite happily playing Fetch with its owner. Cue lots of chasing, while aggressive dog's owner lazily wandered in the opposite direction, not even looking over.
Then, the white dog spotted me! It came running towards me, full pelt, barking away. I stood still as it barked around my ankles, then the woman called it (not sternly in any way) and it ran off. A few minutes later it was back and I thought, hmmm, perhaps it's trying to be friendly, so I said in very chirpy voice, 'hello!' It jumped at my ankles, growling and barking, and I was scared it would bite me, and will admit I may have given an audible yelp! The woman called it again and it did run off, and didn't trouble me again, but am I being unreasonable to think that if you can't guarantee that your dog isn't going to run and bark and act aggressively to people and other dogs, then you should have it on a bloody lead?!
Yes it was early in the morning and not many people were about, but so what? There were some people, and why should they have to be afraid of the dogs they meet? I say this as a dog lover. If a dog walks calmly up to me then I always bend down and stroke it and make a fuss of it, and I love watching dogs play on the beach. But I don't think I should have to be worried that a dog might bite me, and even if it never would have done, I don't think it's acceptable to let your dog off its lead if it's prone to jumping at people and growling at them. If a child had been there it might not have known to stand still, and might have run (like the other dog did) and been chased. My brother was once chased by a dog who thought he was playing, and was then terrified of dogs for the rest of his childhood! I just think pet owners should consider the fact that not everyone will find their dog as cute and lovely as they clearly do!!!
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