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to burst out crying straight after sex?

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Notyetamummy Sat 13-Nov-10 21:22:58

I don't know what happens to me.

Whenever it's been really good, I just feel so overwhelmed that I cry. Not gentle, actress on telly, one tear down the cheek crying but loud, dramatic sobbing.

It's so embarrassing. My DH just laughs.

Please tell me I'm not the only one that this happens to.

Or if anyone has any ideas how to stop it - please tell.

ChasingSquirrels Sat 13-Nov-10 21:24:44

not often, but sometimes. when it has been really emotionally good as well. new man got quite worried at first, thought he had done something wrong.

Errmmmm Sat 13-Nov-10 21:25:02

You are not alone. I think it must be something to do with a rush of hormones, or something. I think it's more of a compliment to your dh than something to be embarrassed about. I assume you trust your dh not to tell his mates about it down the pub? wink

PinkieMinx Sat 13-Nov-10 21:25:27

It has happened to me - not that often, ususally when I am emotional anyway.

doughnutty Sat 13-Nov-10 21:27:39

It's happened a few times with me. I think mostly when I've been pregnant so probably is hormonal.

BelleDameSansMerci Sat 13-Nov-10 21:28:29

It happens to me sometimes too. Usually when I've been having a really awful time at work or am generally a bit low; the overwhelming pleasure, emotion, etc can release all sorts. My "whateverthebloodyhellheis" (and whatever he is, the sex is always amazing) isn't phased by it now but I think he used to find it a bit odd.

olderyetwider Sat 13-Nov-10 21:30:00

What is this sex thing of which you speak?

wukter Sat 13-Nov-10 21:49:56

Belle, I think you need an acronym for that grin

Notyetamummy, you're in good company.
<Anguished singing 'when we made love, you used top crrrrryyyyyyy'>

Panzee Sat 13-Nov-10 21:51:41

Steven Tyler sang about it too (Crying). You're in good company!

QueenStromba Sat 13-Nov-10 21:53:33

I cried during sex once and I have no idea why.

BelleDameSansMerci Sat 13-Nov-10 21:54:22

wukter I usually refer to him as HBU (handsome but useless)...

TerryWogansCock Sat 13-Nov-10 21:56:28

i cry because its usually so shite

whoknowswhatthefutureholds Sat 13-Nov-10 21:57:05

I often laugh if that makes you feel any better, doesn'[t do much for DHs confidence though!

(in fact I am pretty certain that the only times I concieve is if I have got a fit of the giggles)

NeverArgueWithAnIdiot Sat 13-Nov-10 21:57:15

Happens to me occasionally. (Not, of course, that the sex is ever less than goodgrin) Nothing to worry about but I always feel a bit blush when it happens. Your DH should feel flattered.

LeninGrad Sat 13-Nov-10 21:57:59

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Diziet Sat 13-Nov-10 21:58:43

Notyetamummy, bless your cottons, thank you, I thought it was just me! smile Awwwwwwwwwww!
Um, Mr Diziet and I have been together 17 years this weekend (married for 7 of those years) and it still happens to me now 'n' again.
I sought out the video for 'Your're Still The One' by Shania Twain on Youtube - and yes, I blubbed helplessly. blush
We would've had that song at our wedding but were far too cool at the time. Of course we wouldn't give two hoots now! grin

Gay40 Sat 13-Nov-10 21:59:26

TWC best username ever !!

highhopes2010 Sat 13-Nov-10 21:59:45

pmsl in your club!

Ingles2 Sat 13-Nov-10 22:00:28

I cry regularly blush
great big sobs after orgasm.
Dh laughs,'s been 15 years grin

PassionKiss Sat 13-Nov-10 22:01:22

There's no shame in Crymaxing!

Diziet Sat 13-Nov-10 22:02:50

Bugger it - not only am I The One Who Asks Stupid Questions, I am also The One Who Is The Most Soppy And Uncool. grin

wukter Sat 13-Nov-10 22:06:20

Belle I like HBU. I'd use it, only DH went out catching rats like weekend when I saw one in the garden and REFUSED to deal with it, so he does have his uses.

Back on topic, I never knew this was such a common problem.
<Peers over half moon specs>

wukter Sat 13-Nov-10 22:07:33

He went catching rats LAST weekend.
and I should have put a grin face after HBU, as it warrants it.

LeninGrad Sat 13-Nov-10 22:08:43

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Diziet Sat 13-Nov-10 22:09:22

I'd also like to join the TerryWogansCock Appreciation Society.
How about: ...<<thinks about it...nooo...maybe not...>>

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