Right, I'm going to have a bit of a moan and probably make myself sound like a self-pitying, miserable old nag but I'm really annoyed and, for reasons that you'll see, I can't phone anyone to whinge so I have to type to let off steam!
I had three wisdom teeth out on Wednesday (hence can't talk very well for very long) and have now got a horrible infection for which I'm taking antibiotics which make me feel like crap. I'm swollen as hell and I've had a headache for four days.
Since Wednesday DH has done sweet FA around the house, for example I have just done the first nappy wash for three days; I have just removed the clean dry laundry from the kitchen that has been there since Wednesday; I hoovered through the whole of the upstairs of our house; I just put away the shopping that he dumped on the side in the kitchen; I did the washing-up on Wednesday and then cleared it away today because it was still out; plus various other chores and jobs that have been put off for ages blah blah blah.
In fairness, he has been at work some of the time (but he had the day off on Weds, finished early on Thurs, started late on Fri and had the day off today so he's been home plenty) and he is thoroughly crap at doing anything around the house so my expectations are low anyway.
What I am really about is that he just asked me if I was OK while I was putting on the laundry and when I said "not really" and told him why (and I swear to GOD that I was unconfrontational; tbh I haven't got the energy to be pissed off) he got incredibly angry, shouted at me and has stormed out with DS.
So AIBU and a self-pitying idiot or AIB reasonable and right to be full of righteous rage?!
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feralgirl · 13/11/2010 15:38
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