We loved our cleaner. She was expensive but worth it. But today I came back to a note saying she thought I was rude and that working here made her uncomfortable.
The only examples she gave were a comment I made last week about her being early (why does anyone find that offensive???) and this morning I referred to her car as an old jag (I actually think her car is quite cool - its practically a classic!) which was thoughtless I know but enough to make her want to resign??!!
I've always been really nice to her! I just don't get it. I've left 2 messages on her phone and sent her some flowers to be delivered today, but now I'm really annoyed that she has left me in the lurch. I feel really upset and let down. Is our house not good enough for her to clean or something??
I really want her to come back, but now I'm too scared that if she does, perhaps I better not say anything to her at all for fear of offending her.
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AIBU?
AIBU to feel upset, annoyed and let down by my cleaner who has just resigned??
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zebedeethezebra · 01/11/2010 16:49
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