Ds will be 3 next month and is due to start pre school in October. He has multiple food allergies the most severe of which are milk, nuts and eggs. The only time we have had a slip up and he got hold of a tiny piece of milk chocolate we ended up in A&E and his breathing was affected. The consultant has now decided to issue him with an epi pen.
I waited until we were offered the place before I warned the nursery of his allergies and was told it wouldn't be a problem. However at the parents evening on Tuesday we found out that there was a 'milk table' available to all children at all times during the session. The kids arrive and choose either water or milk, label it up and are free to drink from it all morning. I called and spoke to the teacher in charge yesterday, and she said that as long as he know he couldn't drink milk because it would make him poorly "it would be ok".
Now ds is very sensible and always asks me if he can eat things BUT he is only 3 and he's never been left without myself or the childminder before. I'm dismayed at the thought of him having to police his allergy himself. Although the teacher seems very nice I was made to feel a little neurotic by my line of questioning.
To me it's no different than putting out bowls of peanuts in front of a nut allergic 3 year old and saying "it's alright, he knows nuts make him poorly" so he won't eat them.
Can you more experienced parents help me to deal with this please? I presume the nursery has some obligation to safeguard my child rather than such a "I'm sure it'll be ok" attitude.
It's a nursery attached to a primary school not a private nursery which is why I chose it. They are also aware he will have an epi pen so know the allergy is severe.
Thanks in advance for any advice you might be able to give me.
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Pre school milk policy causing me sleepless nights, advice please (sorry long post)
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Bilbomum · 17/07/2009 10:11
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