thank you cokefan. o na whim i popped into holland and barrett yesterday to look for dairy-free choc buttons, and spotted the mrs crimbles apple cake. it is egg, milk and nut free, so dd4 DID actually get a cake yesterday. and today, and probably for the rest of the week.
i tried some and its very nice, but it gave me heartburn (symtoms of pregnancy unfortunaly), so dd4 gets to eat most of it herself.