To cut a long story short, my father has cirrhosis of the liver - has had it for many years now...
The last time I saw him was july 2017, Showed all the typical symptoms, lost of appetite, bloating, swollen feet, black stool, prominent veins, vomiting blood, loss of memory. Has sleep apnea as hes not breathing properly at night, has a breathing machine which he never uses.. Now is a diabetic also has high blood pressure... he has been extremely secretive about everything being admitted into hospital and discharging himself shit like that. Wont tell anyone anything, just says he is fine - when clearly he is not.
He is STILL continuing to drink... he has a job now but I dont understand how he is holding it down, claims he drink less now because of the job. Hmm.
I moved up north in 2014 started my family all my family all down south. Hes coming to see me for xmas for a few days with rules put in place as Its really difficult for me to agree to see him or not, because of the drinking. I wont go down south with all the kids it's too much for me right now so I am allowing him to come up, at this point hes not going to stop drinking so I want him to get the chance to see the grandchildren before anything happens. My partner is supportive and understanding about this situation..
What has really broken me is when we was organising this he told me he will be bringing some paperwork for me sign for his will he went on to say he has x amount of money and wants to split it between me and my brother, so if anything where to happen then we have money for his funeral and the grandkids...
I asked him is there anything he wants to tell me he said no... my parents are the kind of people if anything is wrong they wont say as he doesnt want me to worry..
Can anyone shed some light who has experience with cirrhosis? Ive done tons if Google search it just doesnt look great at all..
I think hes coming to end and knows it..
I'm heartbroken.
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Cirrhosis of the liver.. the end is near
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Brokentoday · 25/11/2019 22:49
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