I have a friend with an alcohol problem. She hasn't acknowledged this even though it has cost her friends, family support, health and very nearly her job.
There is a new man in her life. He knows
that we (her friends) are worried about her drinking and the behaviour, lies, injures etc that come from it.
He knows this because she introduced us to him at an intervention that we had with her.
I'll just let that sink in.
She brought him along to an intervention and introduced us to him for the first time. I know that's not normal but we have got used to her erratic decisions. Maybe she was hoping we wouldn't say anything if he was there. But we did, because it was important that we got things in the open.
So he knows ALL about her drinking and how it has affected her relationships. and he has still continued with this relationship and has moved in with her. So as not to drip feed, I understand he is not contributing to rent/bills.
So is he a total saint who loves her despite her issues?
Is he using her in the knows that she is vulnerable?
Is he misguided in thinking he can change her?
I really don't know what to make of it. I do know that in a lot of their social media posts there is a bottle/glass of something open in the background.
Has anyone here/that you know of got into a good health relationship when they were drinking unhealthy amounts regularly?
Thanks for getting to the end! I'm a regular MNer but obviously had to name change as this is very outing.
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Should I be suspicious of this man's intention with my alcoholic friend?
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glideandglint · 14/06/2018 23:36
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